How my husband left me to marry someone else in Enugu — Turkey-based Nigerian woman cries out

A Turkey-based Nigerian woman, Onyia Onyinye Lucia, has called out her husband, Uchenna Charles Ojiba, for abandoning her to marry someone else.

According to her, “I meet this man in 2006 in IMT Enugu, when he was sharing a room apartment with two other guys. We dated for two years and lost contact after our OND.

In 2013 I relocated to Malaysia and two days after I arrived the country, we met again. We rekindled our love, it was tough as we had nothing, but we struggled together and started building gradually.

I am three years older than him and I told him from the onset, but he said that wasn’t a problem. In 2016 we got married but we were unable to get pregnant. We went to the hospital and doctor confirmed that he has zero spermatozoa, that the only way we could have kids is either through IVF by a sp@rm donor or through adoption. 

Several hospitals confirmed it home and abroad and when our both families were pressuring us for kids, I stood by him. However, he started che@ting with numerous women in a bid to get a child, that didn’t happen.

In 2018, I confronted one of the women, Kosiso Anyikwa, at a hotel in Enugu and told her to leave my husband alone. She didn’t, instead he threw me out of our matrimonial home.

I later relocated to Turkey and in 2019 he contacted me and begged that I should help him move to Turkey. The agent charged $1000 and I paid half of it thinking he was moving to Turkey so we can resolve our marital issues.

When he finally relocated to the country, he didn’t tell nor contacted me. I took my L and filed for a divorce, he has, however, refused to show up in court. Instead, he went and married the same lady I fought at a hotel. They got married yesterday, April 23 in Enugu State.

He is now telling people that the reason he left me is because I’m older than him and his family don’t like me because I don’t have kids, when he’s the imp#tent one.”